Why do we love, when it’s ought to hurt in the end?

How do you know it will hurt in the end ?

By loving you show care, show support and understanding ,express the feeling of belongingness
which is all one wants when he is alive ,flesh and blood .

Its human nature to want good things, to be happy and smile,to be loved .
You may have success (it also depends on individual view point), you may have wealth,you may be most popular person around,
but without a loving person to share that happiness of being successful, being wealthy etc everything else
you have will seem incomplete.

You may have hundreds of reason to fight and live alone but you have only one reason to be together and feel being cared, being secure
being loved -- LOVE.

As a child you look for love and support from your parents , you are happy when you are prasied, encouraged and
also corrected when you go wrong.


When you grow up you look for similar love in your life partner .You look for a person to share your worries,sooth you and
do things for you like your mother/father once did.
You are happy when your wife/husband tells 'Dear, dont worry,we'll sort out things together. I love you".


When you grow old and know your end is near , you want you are happy
when your child sits beside you and say "dad,mom i am there for you, I love you"

Its just that single moment that brings smile on your face, content in your heart that makes you want to
love and be loved.


So why say love hurts in the end ?

Why is love so beautiful, when the pain is more severe?

Man never realises the good time, the beauty of love when it is actually happening to him.
He never bothers to appreciate love when it is being given to him .
He realises it when he loses it , when he is wanting it back.
Hence love seems short lived and vansihing but pain seems to be
everlasting and severe.

Why is eternal love so tough to achieve?

We keep fantasising that Love should be unconditional, should be undemanding etc but forget that
it is human to err, to expect , to want for more .
We expect things from the person we love which we forget to give him ourselves.

We neglect the feelings the other person expresses with truth and purity at heart
but only look at the things which he/she did not do for us .
We keep thinking of what did the other person do for us rather than thinking
how better could have been with him.

So eternal love seems far fetched .

Why does happiness always come with sorrow tugging behind?

To keep you excelling in whatever you do. To give a reason to fight, to give the happiness of achievement to you
and to keep you going .

Why isn’t there some magical remedy to make the pain vanish?

Then there should be something magical to make happiness vansih too. Balance is the truth of nature.

Why can love not be "forever"?

It is. You may not be able to live with the person all your life, may even depart forever,
but the love he/she had given to you remains with you.
You may have left behind a good old school friend, does he/she complain "why love is not forever ?".
No right, life moves on. So do we..